Being queer, trans, autistic, or ADHD often means you’ve spent years moving through a world that wasn’t built for you. Kalila Beehler, Ph.D. (they/them) is a nonbinary, autistic psychologist in Pennsylvania. They work with LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adults, and they know this terrain from the inside.
You might think deeply, feel intensely, love expansively, and experience the world in vivid, layered ways. You’ve probably also picked up some heavy baggage along the way, like messaging that you’re “too much,” “not enough,” or “hard to understand.”
This is a space where you don’t have to shrink, explain, or over-function.
In therapy with Licensed Psychologist Kalila Beehler, Ph.D., your needs are not a burden. Your communication style isn’t “wrong.” You get to be your full self and be met with curiosity, care, and respect.
Kalila Beehler, Ph.D. (they/them) is based in Pennsylvania and offers a space where you can:
There’s no pressure to know what you want to work on yet, and many people book just to see how it feels. No commitment, no prep required; the consult is simply a conversation.
Or, bookmark this page for when you’re ready. There’s no rush.
Kalila Beehler, Ph.D. (they/them) is a nonbinary, neurospicy, autistic therapist in Pennsylvania who specializes in working with LGBTQ+ adults navigating life with ADHD, autism, both, or other.
They help clients who are:
In therapy with Kalila, you don’t have to code-switch or constantly translate your experience.
You don’t need to be articulate, emotionally neutral, or “on.” You just get to be here.
Kalila Beehler, Ph.D. offers virtual therapy for LGBTQ+ autistic, ADHD, and other neurodivergent adults in Pennsylvania and 40+ other states.
Dr. Beehler is an in-network provider with BCBS PPO plans, which also include Anthem, Highmark, Horizon, and other Blue Cross Blue Shield plans. They also work with clients using private pay, sliding scale, or out-of-network benefits.
Book a Free ConsultNo. Kalila welcomes both self-diagnosed and formally diagnosed clients. Your lived experience is valid, regardless of whether you’ve received an official label.
That’s totally okay. Kalila is experienced in working with people who communicate in diverse ways, need extra processing time, or benefit from visual or written supports. Therapy is adjusted to fit you—not the other way around.
Kalila knows many LGBTQ+ neurodivergent folks have been pathologized, misgendered, or dismissed by therapists. Their approach is collaborative, consent-based, and non-pathologizing. You’ll never be shamed for how you think, feel, or express yourself.
Sessions can include visual aids, grounding practices, shared notes, agenda-setting, or breaks—depending on what helps you feel supported. Dr. Beehler will co-create a format that works with your brain and body.
Dr. Beehler is based in Pennsylvania and provides online therapy to adults anywhere in PA, whether you’re in Philly, Pittsburgh, or anywhere in between.
They can also see clients located in over 40 U.S. states. When you contact us, we’ll confirm you’re in an eligible state. At time of session, you can be located in any of these PSYPACT states: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Washington D.C., Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia, Wisconsin, or Wyoming.
15 minutes
You can ask questions or just listen.
No intake, no prep required.
No pressure tactics, no commitments, just a conversation about fit.
Ahead of your consultation, if you’d like to ask any questions, fill out our short contact form below.